Couples communication class. No joke, this Wacky Ex is doing it again. One would think after hundreds of counseling, self help, leadership, personality studies and communication courses I've forced myself to sit through and endure (not to take anything away from the courses and studies themselves, but sometimes the delivery is like having a tooth pulled. You know you'll be better for it once it's done, but dear Lord, can you make it quick?) in my life, I would know it all by now. (Um, hey diary, you do know how to ignore the comment in parentheses to read the sentence right? If not, go slow; try to keep up. My wacky ex brain's on overload and my fingers are doing all they can to carry on.)
Well, I could, you know. I knew exactly how to communicate to my ex, (finally, after the house fell on me) “Get out, I've had enough/” Pretty clear delivery of a feeling message, exhibiting compassion and understanding of his need to (freely mess around) move on which definitely resulted in self help.
Seriously, communication is key for a good relationship and here's a hint. Listening x Talking = really good sex? Give good 'listing'. (new word there) My word for listening and talking. The better the listing the better the intimacy in all areas. Of course, what do I know. I'm just a wacky, divorced, old, uh, no, in my prime-aged woman who can only express her humbled, somewhat flawed, opinion.
Oh Diary, I'm sooo unappreciated. ~~<>~~
~signed The Wacky Ex~